Dearest Rachel –
It was an interesting start to the day, honey. I was assured by Copilot that the trains departing the Arlington Heights station for Ogilvie would show up there at about 48 minutes past the hour, so I made a point of leaving the house shortly after nine (but not without extending a last minute offer for Daniel to join me; as expected, he declined). This would allow me a relatively leisurely walk to the station, although I couldn’t help walking at a quicker pace than I might have with Lars, especially when I heard the sound of a train (which I assumed to be the one heading from Chicago to Harvard).

The matter only worsened as the appointed minute approached; an announcement came over the public address system stating that the train had been delayed in Cary for unknown system issues, and with no expectation of when the matter would be resolved. I suppose this is why certain folks prefer to drive into the city; despite being cheaper (and ostensibly faster, especially on that last mile and regarding parking), you’re on someone else’s schedule, and have to deal with their delays.






Roland and Evelyn hail from the days when Lars served in some capacity at Willow Creek. He’s never mentioned any title or position that I can recall, but it was at a level that had him traveling with or on behalf of the pastorate to various parts of the world when he was a young doctor. So as it happens, they’re probably a good decade older than either of us. As a result, the two of them would occasionally need to stop and catch their breath while we walked back from the end of the pier. That, and the fact that there was and is a lot to take in from a touristic point of view meant that our walk back was punctuated with a few stops along the way.

There was some discussion about a hop-on, hop-off bus, like the one we took in San Antonio (and Daniel and I took in Glasgow). However, the price was rather eye-watering; about eight times what I paid in terms of train fare (and which proved to be overpaying itself, but I’m getting ahead of the story). So that idea was scrubbed.


Roland and his wife come from a little village in Thuringia, only some twenty or so klicks from what used to be the West German border when they were young and growing up. He spoke of being able to watch television and listen to radio from ‘the outside,’ but not being able to talk about it with friends, as anything spoken about such Western influences could get a knock on the door from the Stasi – and anyone could be an informant for the Stasi. It was instilled in them at a young age to keep secrets, lest their parents get in trouble and taken away.
He made several references to his first trip to Paris, but Lars had to restrain him from elaborating too much on the subject. It would seem that the memory of being free to travel upon the collapse of the soviet bloc and reunification was so overwhelming that, even now, he gets emotional about it. Which would be all well and good, but having suffered a stroke within the last decade, such outbursts could actually be hard on his heart, so he can only mention it in passing.
As it is, I’m not clear as to whether this is their first trip to America; it seems to be a first time in Chicago. With their village being only composed of two hundred people, it’s that same dichotomy that you had coming up here of living in an island surrounded by cornfields and moving to a continent of concrete and steel. Sure, the suburbs are a little more verdant and spread out than the city, but it’s still one building after another in what seems like an infinite progression. I may be used to it, but I get that it’s daunting.
After lunch, Lars drove the three of us around various parts of the city – which made sense, too, as they were in no condition to do the sort of walking he and I are used to (although in any case, this wasn’t exactly the sort of walking we’re used to, apart from the sheer distance). There was some talk about visiting the Skydeck at the Sears Tower (as a local, that’s what it’s always going to be; none of this ‘Willis’ nonsense), but again, given that the price would be considerably lower during the coming week, that was put on hold. He indicated the hospitals he worked at – or rather, where they had been, since some have been torn down and replaced – as well as areas like the ‘Magnificent Mile’ of Michigan Avenue, the entertainment district that is Rush Street…

I was glad to not have driven down here myself, as the one-way streets and the congestion of both pedestrian and vehicular traffic would have tried my patience, but Lars seemed to be having fun playing tour guide as he indicated one sight after another. It was amusing as he pointed out various stores and shopping centers to Roland, who had already expressed his shopping philosophy of knowing what you wanted, and getting in and out quickly – the “surgical strike” method, as you and I would put it; a very male-oriented style of shopping. However, I pointed out that, as a tourist, you wouldn’t know what a store would have in a foreign country, so battle plans would be useless. You have to go in thinking there might be something that would catch your eye, or not bother to go in at all.

There was some talk about the three of them coming to Arlington Heights and the Alfresco district at some point – certainly, it’s a lot closer to them, and the parking fees aren’t nearly so exorbitant – but that remains to be seen. It might be worth letting the girls know about it, if it were to be a thing – certainly Kerstin might be able to make Evelyn feel a little more at home, as she did basically all of her talking with and through Roland.
Anyway, like I said, this was going to take some time to relate to you; I hope you don’t mind. I keep saying I need to get into the city and look around a bit more, although I’m certainly glad to not have to do so on any regular (let alone compulsory) basis, so this was a good opportunity to do so. Who knows when – or if – the next chance will come around?
